I just simply am not a dater. I think I have been on three official dates in my life. They are like job interviews and I refuse to be romantically employed.
I think we are all guilty of it sometimes. That is the honest answer. However, as we grow older we learn through experience, not through being told just not to, the consequences of doing so… it is in that pure vulnerable forum we learn how i m p o r t a n t it isnot to judge a “book” by its cover.
I don’t know about a motto to sum up entirely who I am, but one thing I’ve always lived by, and people try and convince me out of it, and I just don’t believe in it is, I’ve never been a dater. I’ve never gone on true dates before. Really, with anyone. I’ve had a few boyfriends before but I’ve never truly just gone on random dates. When people ask why, I’ve always said I feel like dates are like interviews, and I refuse to be romantically employed.